Goliath comes in many forms~ It is time to stop the devastation to innocent families which is occurring daily across the country. My Family Rights Affiliation
TOUGH LOVEchronicles
the lives of two parents, Hannah from New York City and Patrick from
Seattle, who have been separated from their children by the state.
Through vérité-style footage and exclusive access inside the child
welfare courts, TOUGH LOVE captures an intimate, firsthand
account of these parents' triumphs and struggles as they confront their
past mistakes and attempt to prove to the system that they deserve a
second chance to be parents. Throughout the film we will also hear from
the foster parents who take care of these children, the judges who
oversee these cases and the child welfare experts who have a clear
understanding of how this complex system works.
~~A NOTE FROM THE FILMMAKER~~
Hi, my name is Stephanie Wang-Breal. Thank you for visiting my Kickstarter page for my new film, TOUGH LOVE. You may know me from my last film WO AI NI MOMMY
a story about International Chinese adoption. Working
on that film was an amazing experience. Along the way we won multiple
awards, were nominated for an Emmy and met an amazing community of
people. This community urged me to look more closely into our nation's
child welfare system. After doing some research, I became inspired me to
make this new documentary, TOUGH LOVE. When I first
began working on this film 2.5 years ago, I was surprised to learn that
over 90% of parents lose custody of their children to the foster care
system for neglectful incidents relating
to treatable issues: insufficient housing, lack of
childcare or family support, and drug addiction. Many of these parents deeply love their children and want them home. Sadly,
poverty-related stresses and cultural stigma often make it difficult for them to
get their kids home and out of foster care. This is a story and perspective that's rarely told in today's media. As most child welfare stakeholders will tell you, the general public
has a lot of empathy for kids who are in foster care, but very little
empathy for the parents. TOUGH LOVE addresses the complexity of
the child welfare system and shows that many of these parents are not
bad people, but are lacking in the support systems they need to raise
their children. By starting at the beginning, inside the parents' homes,
TOUGH LOVE will provide audiences with a better understanding of
what services vulnerable parents need to keep their children out of
foster care.
Interview with Film Makers Previous Award Winning Film
"This book is an inspiration for anyone who is a foster, or is fostering a child, or for that matter anyone seeking a story of overcoming life's challenges".
"Nicole's story is an inspiring one of tenacity and triumph... And this story is far from over"
"It will give you hope and make you see that one person can make a difference if they truly believe".
"A story like Nicole's could be hidden from daylight-- too painful to share--too much to relive.Instead of keeping her story a secret, she has instead chose to share it in this book and reflect it in her work."
"I felt as though I was a part of her journey to getting to the inspirational person that she is today. After reading this book, I was encouraged, challenged and pushed to continue with my goals."
The Parental
Rights Amendment (PRA) has been drafted and is being circulated in the
House as Rep. Mark Meadows (R-NC) secures original cosponsors. We are
very pleased with its early progress: in just 4 days before Congress went on recess, the PRA list of cosponsors reached double digits. (Rep. Frank Wolf of Virginia, the tenth cosponsor, signed on last Friday.)
Meanwhile, the Convention on the Rights of Persons with
Disabilities (CRPD) has shown that it is still a threat to American
parental rights. Senior staff connected to the Senate Foreign Relations
Committee have told Mike Farris face-to-face that a series of three hearings on the CRPD is planned to start sometime in June. Regardless of the exact date, there is no doubt this treaty will be returning soon. The time for action is now!
Action Items: Visit or Call
As alluded to
earlier, Congress is on recess this week, so its members are in their
home districts. That means that this week is a great time to make a
local phone call or visit regarding these two matters.
First, call or visit your congressman and invite them to cosponsor the Parental Rights Amendment.
Let them (or their staff) know to contact Patrick Fleming in Rep. Mark
Meadows’ office for more information or to sign on in support. If they
ask for a bill number, point out that we are seeking original cosponsors – a bill number has not yet been assigned.
If your congressman agrees to cosponsor, let them know that if they include Michael@parentalrights.org on their email to Rep. Meadows’ staff, we will update our website immediately to reflect their support.
To find contact information for your congressman, visit ParentalRights.org/states and
click on your state. Then, click on the link to your congressman’s
website for specific local offices and give them a call. If you can, try
to enlist a few friends to go with you for a brief 5-10 minute visit.
Then, call or visit your senators and urge them to reject ratification of the CRPD.
Let them know you care too much about American sovereignty and parental
rights to ratify any treaty that would dictate U.S. domestic law over
our families. If they deny that the CRPD would have this effect, urge
them to take the time to be absolutely sure. And if they tell you our ratification will only create changes in other nations, ask them politely to show you the article that empowers the U.S. to govern other nations if we ratify the treaty.
You can find your senators’ contact information through ParentalRights.org/States
by clicking on your state, then on the web link next to your senators’
names. Please gather a few friends and schedule a 5-10 minute visit in
your senators’ local offices.
We will keep a close eye on both of these in the days ahead. We
will watch with excitement as the list of PRA cosponsors grows, and we
will keep you alerted to any movement on the CRPD. (When it arises, we
plan to host events in D.C. and locally to help ensure its defeat.
Please plan to join us if you can, and we will get you the dates as soon
as we know them!)
Please Donate
Our diligence and preparation come at a cost. Defeating the CRPD while driving the PRA forward is neither an easy nor an inexpensive task. If you are able, please donate today
to ParentalRights.org to keep both efforts going strong. Only with your
help can we preserve parental rights in America for the next
generations.
Thank you for standing with us to protect parental rights and American sovereignty from international intrusion.
Sincerely,
Michael Ramey
Director of Communications & Research ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ May you find Strength in Your Higher Power, Granpa Chuck Keeper of the web files for http://nfpcar.org
All I am going to say that below are some fact sheets about Our Children that are actually waiting for Adults to do something for Their Future with Their Family.
In the U.S. 400,540 children are living without permanent families in
the foster care system. 115,000 of these children are eligible for
adoption, but nearly 40% of these children will wait over three years in
foster care before being adopted.
Around the world, there are an estimated 153 million orphans who have lost one parent. There are 17,800,000 million orphans who
have lost both parents and are living in orphanages or on the streets
and lack the care and attention required for healthy development. These
children are at risk for disease, malnutrition, and death.
According to the U.S. State Department, U.S. families adopted more than 9,000 children in 2011. Last year, Americans adopted the highest number of children from China followed by Ethiopia, Russia, South Korea, and Ukraine.
No child under three years of age should be placed in institutional care without a parent or primary caregiver. This is based on results from
32 European countries, including nine in-depth country studies, which
considered the “risk of harm in terms of attachment disorder,
developmental delay and neural atrophy in the developing brain."
Children raised in orphanages have an IQ 20 points lower than their peers in foster care, according to a meta-analysis of 75
studies (more than 3,800 children in 19 countries). This shows the need
for children to be raised in families, not in institutions.
Each year, over 27,000 youth “age out” of foster care without the emotional and financial support necessary to succeed.
This number has steadily risen over the past decade. Nearly 40% had
been homeless or couch surfed, nearly 60% of young men had been
convicted of a crime, and only 48% were employed. 75% of women and 33%
of men receive government benefits to meet basic needs. 50% of all
youth who aged out were involved in substance use and 17% of the females
were pregnant.
Nearly 25% of youth aging out did not have a high school diploma or GED, and a mere 6% had finished a two- or four-year degree after
aging out of foster care. One study shows 70% of all youth in foster
care have the desire to attend college.
States spent a mere 1.2-1.3% of available federal funds on parent recruitment and training services even though 22% of children in foster care had adoption as their goal.
Over three years is the average length of time a child waits to be adopted in foster care. Roughly 55% of these children have had
three or more placements. An earlier study found that 33% of children
had changed elementary schools five or more times, losing relationships
and falling behind educationally.
Adopted children make-up roughly 2% of the total child population under the age of 18, but 11% of all adolescents referred for therapy
have been adopted. Post-adoption services are important to all types of
adoption, whether foster care adoption, international adoption, or
domestic infant adoption.