Unite as One OR Go in the Same Direction????

This is a repost. Primarily since I feel there is a ripple in the waters of some "Group Organizers", who have forgotten the "True Leaders" for our Families. So many times, we have shared the statement "You need to become and Advocate for Yourself to Protect your Family." Basically, this means that those, who have the answers are those closest to the children. So, with this in mind, again, please consider these thoughts. Plus remember these 3 words >>> Sharing, Caring, and Guidance

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As I am sure many are aware, who cruise the web, there are thousands of sites that either talk about the "Injustices" of a Broken system and/or "Give Advice" on what to do if Accused as a Parent and/or Care Giver for Our Children. However, one must remember that most sites are merely a starting point and unfortunately, many times,  the advice given is "Wrong" for your particular concern. 

This is based on the fact that each and every concern is particular to Your Concerns; and each state and, many times, counties vary in their interpretations of the Statutes, Policies, etc, they are bound to follow.

But I pose a basic decision as to the importance of what direction should the movement for Reform for Our Families follow:

• Unite as One Group?
• Go in the Same Direction?

Unite as one Group: This would indeed be a Powerful Organization, do to the sheer numbers of Representation. A few, as Leaders, have organized their website in this fashion.. ie Reps by Nation, States, and even Counties. A particular site, which I am not going to mention, started out as a very valuable site. However, the Leader, and unfortunately, took a stand the "He Had the Answers".. And in no uncertain terms, proclaimed himself as an "Expert".

End result, What started out as a Great Idea, ended up as a Disaster. Many were mislead, not to mention, lost money, by believing, he had the answer to their concerns. Please be aware, Do Not Take Advice, Give your Hard Earned Money from those who make you believe it is an Easy Road to Defend Yourself against the Agency (Known by some as Goliath). With all the biases, corruption, etc. that exists in Our Agencies, it is not an easy task to defend yourself.

Another factor to consider, is that the Larger a Group, many times, the sheer size, gives a diminishing return on the effectiveness of the group. Compare our Massive Bureaucracy.

Bottom line, each Family Concern is "Unique" and should be handled as such.

Go in the Same Direction:

What do I mean by this?? Basically, no matter how many web sites, or organizations there are, each must recognize who the true enemy is and what our Importance as a Family is in our nation. Simply put, our enemy is any one and/or any group who is contradictory to the Principles of Raising a Strong Family. As far as the Importance of Our Families, simply put, "Families are the Most Important Resource We Have in Our Nation" For, after all, who are the one's who share their hard earned money to purchase an item or service. Easy answer, it is the individual in a Family, who brings home the Bacon. Or generically stated, "The Consumer"

These are just some very Basic Thoughts for everyone's consideration. I know, if you start thinking about the basics presented, you will soon discover many, many more.

So again, I leave you with this thought, created by a very active Advocate in the State of WA:

“We are joining forces with all persons affected by Parens Patriae to include parents, extended family, foster parents and father's and mother's rights groups. While this is a difficult endeavor due to various divisions, the focus will be on challenging the system with the unified goals and commonalities that each is suffering under in family courts and through CPS.”
(See Definition: Parens Patriae)

Learn More about Our Affiliation and Educational Aides>> http://www.nfpcar.org/FPA/emails/Current.htm

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May you find strength in your Higher Power,  
GranPa Chuck
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